Men are always speaking about how crazy women are as if you guys are oh so sane. I THINK NOT! but I recently found this article written BY a man about the craziness of women of which you men speak. Check it out:
Written by Stephan Labossiere
That’s right women are freaking nuts! A majority of them have lost their minds and have lost all common sense. Why has this happened? Cause they were born that way!…Ok I’m done venting and being over the top : ). Seriously I do believe a lot of women could be a bit crazy at times but I also believe that men have contributed to it very much. Don’t get me wrong, I believe everyone is accountable for their own actions. You control how you handle things regardless of what you have been through or are going through. Still I think men participate in way too much negative behavior that can be easily eliminated. This behavior definitely contributes to more emotional instability in women. The funny part is we as men do what we do, complain in amazement that the woman is crazy, and we don’t understand how she got like this. So here is some of my input in regards to this dilemma.
Men – If all you want is some ass then stop playing boyfriend to get it! Really, whether everyone realizes it or not this is the main contributor to the unhealthy behavior that men engage in. How can you think it’s OK to make this woman feel as if she can be the “one” or that you are soooo into her, when in reality your main concern is getting some ass. As well as the other benefits you can take from her such as free meals, gifts, favors, etc. You are simply playing with her emotions to get what you want. So please do not be surprised when she starts to act “crazy” because you have now decided to pull the rug out from under her. You set her up to invest her time and emotions, and when you’re done using her you basically tell her it was all for nothing. That’s like putting your life savings into something and losing it all just like that and that’s not cool man. If you don’t have enough skills to get some booty without leading her on then just leave it alone and accept that you’re less of a man : ) (I’m joking people, but that man should just leave it alone). At the end of the day do unto others as you want them to do to you. Otherwise be prepared for the craziness you will have helped create…Karma is a b**ch!
Women – Stop falling for and believing any man who says the right things to you. I’m not saying be negative about every man you meet (you should always think positive) but it’s about damn time you be a lot smarter about it. Smarter means be patient and let the man’s actions show you something, not his words. Also understand that anybody can do right every now and then. So actions are good but if it’s not consistent then it’s not enough. If he is truly into you then he will have no problem showing it. When men make a million and one excuses it’s because you unfortunately are not the one. Therefor he does not care to put in the necessary effort and you should just keep it moving. At least that way you won’t find yourself months or years later wondering what just happened. Not to mention the amount of denial you will be in as you lie to yourself to believe you’re in love. When in reality you’re just very hurt and can’t believe you just wasted all that time and energy. Bottom line, stop getting involved with guys who haven’t proved themselves to you. If you want to mess with him for fun then that is your choice. Just don’t get it confused for something else and then blame men for your craziness when you set yourself up for that crap.
So there you have it. I have never been a man to lead women on (at least not that I know of lol) so I simply cannot respect or defend a man who goes about his business this way. On the flip side I’m tired of seeing women just continuously fall for the same nonsense when I know that women are much smarter than that. So everyone needs to be smarter, more honest, and then let the chips fall where they may. Now let me go file that restraining order on this woman standing outside my door ; ). Again that was a joke lol.
Certified Relationship Expert & Life Coach. Author of the book “How To Get A Married Woman To Have Sex With You…If You’re Her Husband”