A female colleague of mine recently ask me “why is it that men want to act silly and all uninterested in a woman while the woman is with them; but as soon as the woman leaves them and hooks up with somebody else, now the old brother wants to try and step up his game and act so interested in the woman?”

Simple answer; we’re stupid like that! Generally most men take their women for granted and don’t realize what he had until she’s gone! My rule for relationships is this; don’t leave room for anyone else to come in and do what you should be doing!  This goes for both the man and the woman. Men treat your woman like a Queen and women treat your man like a King. I don’t want to be the man who said, “You are the best thing that has ever happen to me and I wish I had appreciated you while I was with you!”

Cherish the water while it’s in the well and you will never be thirsty!


Post courtesy of guest writer “K13″

*”K13” is a guest writer sharing his male perspective on life and relationships with the readers of Relationship Voice.