Lady J.,

I’ve been seeing this guy for sometime now and we’ve had our ups and downs but we’ve never made our relationship official but when we’re together it’s all about us.  I’ve been with other people and so has he but me being with other people is primarily because he was out doing what he wanted.  Well it kind of seems that now my being with others has made him a little shy about moving forward with us having a real relationship.  I really like this guy but I feel a little confused. Should I move on or be patient and don’t mess around with anyone else until I figure out if he really wants to be with me?