I’m just going to touch on a particular mistake women make that get them disappointed every time. Ready? Here it is: They do NOT listen!
What?! Women don’t listen? All the talking and communicating that women like to do and you’re telling me that they don’t listen?? Yes, that is exactly what I’m saying.
Men may not talk much or want to sit down as much as women and have a heart to heart, but they DO talk. Most men are pretty direct about what they want and what they do not want from the start. If a man does not want a relationship, he will say so. When a man says “I’m not looking for a relationship.” STOP! Think about what you really want to happen with this man. You like him, you think he’s cute, etc etc. You’re giving him the time of day for a reason and usually it’s in hope that things will one day progress. So, in a sense, you ARE looking for a relationship. You are looking for a commitment. You are looking for a little bit more than a “whatever happens, happens” approach. That alone is enough to tell you that what the two of you are looking for do NOT align.