>If you have lived past 25 years of age, you probably have had your heart broken, or at least, had a bad break up. You and your partner fell out for what ever reason, and you find yourself riding by his/her home late at night. Making unwanted phone calls, following a person around town, resorting to insulting remarks on shared web sites, keying cars, breaking windshields,… just doing stupid stuff you know. Have you ever done something so out of character that you have to ask yourself, “Am I turning into a Stalker?”

Yes Love is a very strong emotion, but what in the world is this? Where did the Love end and the obsessive behavior begin? Fighting for your relationship is NOT what I’m talking about!!! (just to clear the air) I mean you, or someone close to you, is absolutely becoming a stalker!!! There’s an Ex Parte’ order sittng on a Judge’s desk right now with your name on it!!!

If I’m dating a woman and she remotely suggests to me that she doesn’t want to be with me, I’m outta there!!! No calls, text messages, emails, drive-bys, nothing!!! Game over, I lost, I’m gone. I struggle with understanding the wild actions of people who lose their minds and become a Channel 4 News scoop in the making.

Share some insite on obsessive, destructive behaviors of a scorned lover. Where does it begin? Is it you? Was it ever you in the past?

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